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Durga Mandir
8400 Durga Place, Fairfax Station, VA
703-690-9355

by Cathy Cornelius

I visited the Durga Temple on Tuesday night for the Hanuman Chalisa event. The service was to begin at 7:15 pm but I wanted to go early so I could ask questions and have time to look around. I arrived around 6:20pm. My vehicle plus one other was in the parking lot. As I walked up the steps, there were wooden bin boxes and a sign that requested shoes to be put there before entering. I removed my shoes and to much of my embarrassment, I had a large hole in my sock and my big toe was hanging out! I didn't know if I should remove my socks or not (was it proper?) so I pulled my sock over my toe and entered quickly.  

The first entrance hall had a row of display booths which had items for sale along the right side of the wall. These items looked like shawls. They were red in color with gold thread designs all through the fabric. To the left, was a table with a white linen drape. It was empty. Looking straight and to the left side was a sink area. Hands were to be washed before entering the next area. A young man entered about this time and after washing his hands, he stopped in the doorway, bowed his head, clasped his hands together and chanted something, but I could not understand his words. Then he entered. Shortly after that, a mother and teenage girl came and paused at the same doorway. They bowed their head and bent down and touched the floor and then did some hand movements before they entered. I followed. This was another entrance hall. To my immediate left, there was a room where two men, dressed in long robes, were sitting and talking. One had an opened book in his hands. I approached them and explained who I was and why I was there. The man with the book invited me to watch, write and take pictures if I liked. I explained that I didn't bring my camera. (I really didn't think that would have been allowed but wished I had had it with me!)

After talking for a while, I excused myself and entered the temple area. The room was large. There were five large shrine-like structures along the front wall that contained different idols. The one in the center was the largest structure and the largest idol. She was called Shri Durga Mata. This  structure 

Durga Shrine

was set back about ten feet from the other four structures. Durga Mata was seated on a large, life-size tiger. The figures looked like porcelain. She had eight arms, each hand was holding different objects. She was dressed in a dark burgandy gown that had silk fabric with beautiful embroided gold designs. She had a drape over her shoulder and was sitting on a lion. Pink flowers in gold pots were sitting on either side of the lion. On the bottom step of the shrine sat a bell, an empty silver plate and a yellow  cloth  folded  and  neatly  resting  on  a gold

pedestal. On either side side of the Durga shrine were shadow-box like windows. Each window had a different display of other porcelain figures, bright linens, or paintings. One window displayed a painting of Durga Mata. As I looked at it, an elderly lady came up to it, she touched the glass with her left hand, covered her face with her right and then both hands met as if praying. She bowed her head quickly, whispered something and then quickly moved to the next display. Each window display had a small, clear, plastic square box for money to be deposited. Most contributions were coins. 

 

I then walked back to the front of the Durga Mata Shrine. Two more shrines were on either side of the Durga Mata. The one farthest on the left was Shri Ram Darva. In it were three smiling ladies* dressed in bright orange linen with gold thread designs. There was a multi-colored drape hanging behind them. As I was observing the shrine, three young children came running up and stood in front of this shrine, giggling, as they bowed and paid tribute to Ram Darva. Next to this shrine was another called Shri Hanuman Ji. It had a porcelain monkey figure in it. A bag of real nuts were at  it's  feet,  along  with  a  bell  and  flowers. 

Rama, Sita, Lakshman & Hanuman

On the right side of the Durga Shrine was another shrine called Shri Radha Krishna Ji. Two ladies* were in it and they were dressed in bright orange linen, too. They were wearing floral necklaces that resembled lais. They are smiling. One [Krishna] is playing a flute-like instrument and the other [Radha] is waving [actually displays the "fear not" mudra, a symbolic hand gesture]. The other shrine next to  Radha

 Krishna-Radha                   Shiva-Parvati with Shiva Linga

Krishna is called Shri Shiv Parivar. Inside are two figures. I believe one is a man and the other is a woman [Shiva and Parvati]. There is a large, black-like fountain or spout-like structure [the Shiva Linga] in front of the figures. A copper, cobra-like structure is wrapped around the top part of the black structure. There is a sign posted that says not to pour water or milk after 7:30pm. All of these shrines have the shadow-like boxes on the sides and back, just as I described on the Durga shrine. 

In front of the Durga shrine is a platform in which one of the men that I spoke to earlier is now seated. On the center of this platform is a table sitting on peach colored tiles. The table is draped in white linens and sits on the floor. More and more people are entering the room and they are bringing items in bags or covered bowls. On the table are three silver bowls. I can't tell what is in them, if anything. There are two flat pillows on either side of the table and bananas are gathered on either side of the pillows. I watched as a young couple and their infant child came to the man. He performed some kind of ritual, while chanting in a different language. Prayers were said. They talked. Then the man applied a red substance to their forehead. Then he gave them each a banana, and a handful of nuts on a paper towel. They got up and left. The man came to me as I was writing and watching and he handed me the same thing. He said, "Everybody gets some of these. We give them to everybody." I thanked him and put them in my coat pocket, hoping that I wouldn't be offending him if I didn't eat them at that time. 

Around 7pm, the two men laid down white linen sheets on the floor. They placed them in front of the Shri Hanulman Ji. Candles were lit, books were passed out and instruments were brought out. A bell rang out. All the while, people were still coming in. The Christmas lights that lined the shrines were now turned on. Each shrine had a cloth banner as a backdrop and lights were turned on and some were flashing, multi-colored lights. In some ways it reminded me of a large city filled with neon lights. It almost had a circus appearance because of all the flashing lights and each shrine was in a tent-like shape. All the while, people were visiting, laughing, talking, while others were going to each deity, praying or paying their respects to each. I noticed that people were starting to sit on the linens that had been laid out. The only chairs out were along the back wall which were "reserved for the seniors and handicapped only." I sat right behind the first linen cloth. I didn't know if it would be appropriate to sit on the linen since I was only an observer. A bell rung again. People became quiet. A small wooden box-like instrument [harmonium] was being played. It's sound was a cross between an accordion and organ. It was very small. A drum called Tabla or Tabia was being played by a man in a long robe. He was seated on one of the linens. Several older children were sitting by him and they played small wooden instruments that sounded like a tambourine.

Songs were sung for a solid 45 minutes. People sang, clapped and swayed to the music. Some people needed the books that had the words for the songs, others knew the songs by heart. All this time, people continued to enter and pay their tributes to the deities. One lady brought in a bag. She pulled out two plastic containers of cookies. I've seen ones like them at the bakery at the grocery store. She placed them on a table in front of the Hanuman Shrine. She even removed the lids from the containers, as if to allow the figure to smell the sweet aroma of her gift. I was overcome by an uncomfortablness, in the midst of the joyful singing. Did she truly believe that this porcelain monkey figure could smell? She seemed to walk away with pride. A small grin was upon her face as though she felt very pleased. I wanted to enjoy the music again but found it difficult. I was disturbed by the offering and I'm not sure why. Another thing that disturbed me was the fact that all these deities are bright white in color, yet the people that worship them are dark skinned. Most religions that I'm accustomed to have Jesus' skin color the same color of the worshippers. My church has Jesus' skin as white. I've been in African American churches that show Jesus having black skin. Is there any significance as to why all the deities are white?

Anyway, after the singing, another man, dressed in a robe, closes a curtain to the Durga shrine. There is now approximately fifty people, of all ages, in the room. The singing stops and one of the men that I spoke with earlier starts to talk. He speaks in a different language so I don't know what he is sharing. I assume it's a lesson of some sort. He speaks for only about five to seven minutes. A trumpet blows and chiming begins. Another man now goes to each shrine and performs some kind of ritual. He has a bell in one hand (left) and a candle-like object in the other. He constantly rings the bell and the candle is being lifted and lowered, moved in circles, etc.. in a systematic way. He performs this ritual in front of each deity. During this time, singing starts again. Once the ritual is finished, the other man states something, the people chant, raise their hands two times and then they all bow on the knees or lie down completely on the floor with their arms extended. I am the only one left standing. Then, everyone gets up and the service is over. People start talking and laughing. Some leave to go home. I gather my things and leave, too.

As I enjoyed the quietness of my ride home, I pulled out the nuts and banana that was given to me. I thought about my new experience. There was so much to think about!


* Some of the "ladies" in the shrines were actually images of male deities (Rama and his brother, Lakshmani; Krishna [playing the flute])

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