by Laura Ellen Shulman
Rule #1: We acknowledge the fact that each of us has different views and that each of these views is valid because it is meaningful to the person who holds it.
Interfaith relations may
be considered a challenge to one's faith but one should not run away from
such a challenge. Through this challenge we may find that our faith can
grow. Many years ago I forced this challenge upon myself. I have made what
I consider to be a very rational observation - one which turned me around
from believing that my religion was the only right religion to being able
to acknowledge that there is truth in all religions: if these other religions
have survived for thousands of years and are followed by hundreds of millions,
even a billion, people there must be some truth to them or they would not
have spread and lasted. We owe it to ourselves to search everywhere for
this Universal Truth. This Truth is a message about God in the world that
goes beyond the specific language of any particular theology. Whether a
Jew refers to "Shekhinah", or a Christian to "Holy Spirit", or a Hindu
to "Atman", or a Buddhist to the "Buddha Nature", etc., etc., all faiths,
all humans in all times and places, have sensed the immediate presence
of "the One" among and amidst the many and in the heart and soul of each
of us. God is so great as to have revealed Himself to all of us. Every
religion of humanity is the inheritance of every individual human being.
In my personal experience,
learning about other people's beliefs has led to a greater understanding
of Truth. For one thing, the process of sharing (explaining) our own faith
with others helps us to grasp it better for ourselves. Second, when others
share their faith with us, we may be surprised by the similarities that
become evident and serve to point out the Universal and more basic Truths
that we cannot disagree on because we have all been affected by them. Third,
while there is only one God, we all perceive and understand that God differently
and these differences can enlighten us to a new way of looking at something
- a way that might make more sense to us than familiar beliefs that we
never quite understood. Fourth, these differences can serve just the opposite
purpose: rather than adopt a different belief, an understanding of other
beliefs can help strengthen our own faith when we realize how strongly
we disagree with the other beliefs. Finally, in the least an understanding
of other people's faiths can aid in our relations with people who differ
from us in their understanding of life, the world, God and the nature of
humanity.
When we explore the various
religions in the world we can gain a greater understanding of the Universal
Truth. I like to use the analogy of a jigsaw puzzle. We are trying to form
a picture of God, or Ultimate Reality, or Universal Truth - whatever you
care to call it. Each religion has some of the puzzle pieces but, alone,
we cannot see the whole picture. If we pool our pieces we can arrive at
a fuller understanding of that mystery that is so great as to affect every
culture in all times.
Or we can use another
analogy: imagine God at the center of a circle with people of different
religions standing around the circumference. We are all looking at the
same object but each of us will only see one side of it. There is a story
that comes out of India that speaks to this notion:
Thus they began to dispute amongst themselves as to the figure of the elephant. A passerby seeing them thus quarreling, said, "What is it that you are disputing about?" They told him everything, and asked him to arbitrate. That man said, "None of you has seen the elephant. The elephant is not like a tree; its legs are like trees. It is not like a wall; its side is like a wall. It is not like a fan; its ears are like fans. It is not like a snake, but its nose is like that. It is not like a spear; its tusks are like spears. It is not like a rope; its tail is like a rope. The elephant is the combination of all these."
A question we might ask
ourselves as we pursue interfaith relations is "what is religious unity?"
Would it be found in one of the current religions surviving beyond all
the others as the "only right religion"? Would it be found in a new religion
yet to develop which would supersede all others, making them obsolete?
Would it be a syncretistic approach, a mixing of all current religions
- either a combining of our different practices or saving only that which
we have in common? Would a transcending spirituality make all external
religious forms obsolete? Or is religious unity, rather than practical,
no more than theoretical? Outwardly, our religious practice remains unchanged,
but inwardly, we are changed - having discovered the unity in our diversity,
we accept that other religions work just as well for other people.
Religion can be traced
back as far as historians have been able to trace human civilization. Some
religions have died out but others have grown up to take their place. New
prophets and new religions are bound to continue to spring up in the future.
However, it will be an expanding effort at interfaith dialogue, relations
and working together, tolerance and acceptance that will be the true sign
of a new era in the religious history of humanity. New religions will be
as much a part of this as the old ones, but the development of interfaith
relations is entirely different from the development of new religions.
Interfaith has nothing to do with the development of some new religion.
Interfaith dialogue is a concept that seeks a common ground on which diverse
traditions can meet in mutual respect and sharing. It is not instead of
our traditions, but in addition. It is a way to come to know people of
other traditions and understand their perspective on various issues - to
explore one mountain through many paths.
We can find some amazing
similarities when we study the many different religions in this world -
things that are so basic to Truth that we cannot disagree. If we believe
there is but one God for all humanity then we must consider that this God
has revealed the Truth to many cultures in many times. Surely, a god for
all humanity would not be selective and "false gods" do not exist. It is
the same God and the same Truth - the only difference is that it was not
the same people and not the same culture. Thus, the differences are due
to human limitation and cultural influences that have colored the pure
revelation. Whether it be Jewish, Christian, Muslim, Hindu, Buddhist or
any other revelation, there is no exception. Yes, I am suggesting that
what we think and believe about the Ultimate Reality is not entirely true.
But I am not suggesting that this Truth does not exist. I am suggesting
that, through cooperation, we can improve the accuracy of our understanding.
The many differences in
the religions are more often than not things that do not matter so much.
Some people are more comfortable with certain rituals and others are not.
Some mentalities are better suited to one philosophy while others find
a clearer understanding through another - "to each his own." There have
always been different religions and it is folly for us to imagine that
it will ever be any other way. Everyone feels that their own beliefs are
more true than everyone else's. Everyone's beliefs work for them (or they
would not hold to it) but the same belief does not work for everyone. Different
people have different needs and are of different temperaments. What matters
is that it works, whatever it is. In order for it to work we must be free
and feel free to believe as we see fit for ourselves. If we must fight
prejudice, suppression, proselytism and hatred we cannot concentrate on
what really matters. There is little point in arguing over the fine points
of practice or the theological terms we use.
The medieval Muslim mystic,
Rumi, told a story that illustrates this point:
All four men, though they did not know it, desired the same thing - grapes.
Get to the center of your
own tradition, find God within, and you recognize the unity of all religions.
God is that unity. Forget the forms, symbols, rituals - without the realization
of God it is all empty. The goal of religious unity is to demonstrate that
the center of all religions is the same. Thus do we free people to follow
their own path up the mountain (or to the center of the circle). The true
goal of working for religious unity is not peace and harmony among all
peoples. The true goal is to lead all to that universal center of inner
peace and harmony. From this point, peace and harmony in the world will
occur naturally. "Seek ye first the Kingdom of God and all these things
will be added unto you." [MT 6:33]
God is the One that makes
us one. Life, the world, God and the nature of humanity are the same for
all of us. We live together in one universe and the laws of nature are
the same for each of us. There is one God, Truth, Spirit, Spiritual Nature,
Ultimate Reality, Light, Life Force, Source, Love, Peace, The One. . .
and we all live under its rule. We are all trying to understand what this
might be. Learning about other people's beliefs can lead us to a greater
understanding of Truth. There is no greater reason to pursue interfaith
relations!
Explore
possibilities for interfaith opportunities:
The North American Interfaith Network links to interfaith websites (http://www.nain.org/links/interfaith.htm)
The
Interfaith Conference of Metropolitan Washington DC
(http://www.interfaith-metrodc.org/ifc.htm)